The Blessing of a Call: Why Family is Priceless

There’s something incredibly special about receiving a call from your parents. Whether it’s a call from your mom or dad, there’s an undeniable comfort in knowing that someone cares enough to check in on you, offer advice, or just hear your voice.

It’s a feeling of being grounded, of having a safe space to go back to, even when the world outside may seem chaotic.

This image captures a truth many of us often forget: If you still receive this call, you are the luckiest person in the world.

In an age where life moves fast, and responsibilities pile on, we sometimes fail to appreciate the simple joy of a call from our parents.

For many, particularly women, having a family to turn to—whether it’s for advice, comfort, or just a familiar face—is a blessing. Women, in particular, are often more attuned to their family bonds.

They can lean on their parents when times are tough, when there’s low time with their spouse, or even after a fight. The safety and emotional refuge of a parent’s home is something that provides immense strength.

However, this picture also paints a bittersweet reality for many men.

Men, especially in traditional Indian society, are often expected to shoulder their burdens alone, to be the providers, the protectors, the ones who hold it all together.

Many men do not have the same emotional support system readily available as their wives do.

While women may return to their parents when in need, men often don’t have that same opportunity, particularly if their parents are no longer alive.

Imagine the feeling of wanting to be heard, wanting to cry, or needing comfort, but not having that familiar call to fall back on.

For men, the absence of their parents can feel like an emotional void, a place where they no longer have a shoulder to cry on, where there’s no one to offer the kind of love and understanding that only a parent can provide.

Losing that connection with parents can be devastating, and for many men, it’s not just about the absence of a family member—it’s the absence of an emotional refuge.

The message here isn’t just about appreciating our parents more, though that’s certainly important. It’s also a reminder of the deep emotional support we can give each other as family.

Men may not always openly show it, but the truth is, they too long for a safe place, a place where they can express their vulnerabilities without fear of judgment.

Let’s take a moment to acknowledge the unique emotional burdens men carry, and also, as a society, create more spaces for them to express their emotions and seek support when they need it most.

So, the next time you receive that call from your parents—whether it’s for advice, a check-in, or simply to hear their voice—take a moment to be thankful.

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have that luxury. And for those who don’t, let’s work together to create those spaces where both men and women can feel supported, loved, and heard.

After all, it’s not just about having someone to call; it’s about having someone who truly listens.